January 2010
17 posts
break-up watch
Appleton and I IMed today for 5 minutes. Just niceties. Nothing relationship-py, like asking the other to come over, saying I miss you, blah blah blah nope. Just talking about games and complaining about being sick. Oh well. Haha was a I rooting to split? I dunno…would’ve given me some right to irrationally run off with some other fling.
But we still haven’t really spoken,...
Facebook. I went there.
datinginkorea:
I am now ‘in a relationship.’
Haha.
SUCK IT. Don’t laugh at me.
Brave girl!
fyi
Appleton and I haven’t spoken for more than three days. I’ve been staying off of IM and Steam so he can’t talk to me that way. Is the cycle repeating? Stay tuned! -M
also, it will likely be months until I have sex...
awesome-everyday:
Which is a depressing thought.
I don’t know anyone well enough right now, to say that I would do ‘em.
I’m a take-it-slow kinda lady so I know it’ll take some time. Fuuuuuuuuuuuu-
Don’t think of it that way! Also you never know when you might change…=P I went from “we’re boyfriend-girlfriend the second we make out!” to dating two or three...
quick update before going to bed
I think my little thing with the Office Spouse needs to cool down now. He definitely knows I have a boyfriend. I’ve made sure of this. I guess I didn’t like how much I liked the idea of him inviting me to go to Vegas with his friends. Like, oh, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, right?
Oh and I was talking to my friend and counted back and realized that Appleton and I have...
arbitrary milestone
Appleton and I watched our first sports game where we are fans of opposing teams. We made it. -M
Too soon for a trip?
datinginkorea:
KFF wants to take a trip with me in March, provided we’re both free. For some reason I view the first time you travel with someone as another step in the relationship. Only a few days in, I wonder if it’s a good idea. I think it’s strange that we’ve been talking for 5months, so it feels like we’ve known each other, but really…we’ve only been dating for less than a week. Who...
“Nah, you seem like more of a patient zero or carrier than I do.”
– - Appleton, on who is more likely to get the other person sick
THANKS
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In the polygamous world of professional relationships, I believe I have aquired a new office spouse. Not the naughty kind, but just the bff overshare daily time together kind. Though this may lead to that pesky issue of an “emotional affair” one day as this person was one of the two guys I had the “if only I weren’t taken but I am” talk with, which is why I’m...
gf tact
Appleton’s grandmother died this morning. He says he needs time for himself. I told him that I hope he’s okay and to let me know if he needs anything. Is that enough? I’m feeling a little lost here.
I’ve finally ruled out an unannounced visit bearing food for fear of being too imposing. I’ll just hope I can trust him to let me know if he wants anything from me!
-M
welp
I’m out with GG as friends though he doesn’t know I’m flat out dating someone else. I should tell him but I lied about it so much before (I realize I never described that) so this is complicated. -M
the other half of my brain caught up
So it’s been brought up before — Appleton does not really believe in marriage and does not want to have kids. I don’t care at the moment, but know that I will at some point. So I know I won’t end up with him…the relationship has an expiration date…and that’s kind of a bummer. I knew all of this a long time ago, but it’s only started to bother me...
SUNDAY OPINIONS, Early Edition
natface:
faithandbegorrah:
Most terms of endearment give me the full-body revulsion shudders.
First of the list: Sweetie. Can’t stand it. CAN’T. CANNOT. AT ALL.
Likewise, Sweetheart, Honey, and Babe.
For some reason, Baby gets a pass.
And Darling - I refuse to believe actual people say it. Unless they’re talking to their favorite waitress or cow and are in fact the Marlboro Man.
I’ve...
Ask me whatever →
Joining in the party. Even allowing anonymous questions!
TNJB: there's a movie on cinemax called "The Devil Wears Nada"
M: woooooooo
TNJB: hmm...the sex isnt as good as the pun
instant insanity
(Sorry if this is a double post. Tumblr was down for a minute?)
Day two of officially being a “girlfriend” and I’m already worried I’ve ruined everything by doing any one of many things (including not being interesting enough on the phone last we spoke).
I hate this feeling crazy. Maybe this is why I avoided the label for so long.
Adventure, adventure. It’s been...
Nauseous again
datingeveryone:
I told him I was confused and had some shit I needed to deal with and think about and would let him know when I’d sorted the feelings out in my mind.
I feel like shit. I have never been good at breaking up with people or doing things that I know hurt them. I haven’t had to do it in a while; I’ve been getting dumped as of late. As soon as I recognized my behavior last night, I...